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Category Archives: sex-favorable
The allo aro intersection matters
Last month, there was an incident where a prominent ace blogger very publicly questioned whether “allo aro” should be seen as an empowering label. This caused a furor among aro bloggers, and even the author deleted the post because they … Continue reading
Labels must be allowed to die
On Glossaries Have you ever seen one of those asexual or aromantic glossaries? If not, I have many examples in the footnotes!1 These glossaries often serve as repositories for all the identity terms that one person or another has advocated … Continue reading
Posted in Articles, Demisexual, Language, sex-favorable
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The Biology Definition of Asexuality May Have More Impact on the Sexual Orientation Than We Think
For a long time I assumed there was a chasm between asexuality as a scientific term and as a sexual orientation identity; the words were separate and the gap between them unbreachable. Asexuality meant one thing in biology textbooks and … Continue reading
Posted in Articles, asexual identity, asexual politics, Language, personal experience, sex-favorable
Tagged ace community
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I’m not enthusiastic about enthusiastic consent
This is an article I’m cross-posting from my own blog. I wrote it with allo audiences in mind, but decided it’s good here too. In my guide to sexual violence terminology, I mention that “enthusiastic consent” is an unpopular model … Continue reading
Posted in Articles, Relationships, sex-favorable
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Take it from a sex-favorable ace: you don’t need to have sex
cn: sexual violence “Competing issues” Over the last decade, online ace communities awoke to the fact that some aces can have and enjoy sex. The term “sex-favorable” was coined in 2013 to describe aces who are willing to have sex. … Continue reading
Posted in Articles, asexual politics, sex-favorable, Sexual normativity
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