Category Archives: Question of the Month

Question of the Month: May 12th, 2020.

How do you feel when people flirt with you if it happens?  I personally enjoy flirting and find it really fun, but only when I feel safe and like I can leave the situation if I want to. I rarely … Continue reading

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Question of the Month: April 14th, 2020.

What has been helping you feel better during this difficult global time?  Recently I tried some Tai Chi videos on Youtube and that had a huge effect on my mood and stress levels. I’ve also been drawing more, sitting in … Continue reading

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Question of the Month: March 17th, 2020.

If you have one or are seeking one, what qualities do you look for in a significant other(s)? I look for someone who is good at communicating their feelings, especially negative feelings. I really like knowing what’s going on and … Continue reading

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Question of the Month: February 11th, 2020.

What are your feelings about porn?  You could answer how you feel personally about engaging in it (or not) or how you theoretically think about porn. I’ve thought about this question for a while, but I always held back on … Continue reading

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Question of the Month: January 21st, 2020.

What do you think about aegosexuality? Do you identify with the term? Never heard of it?  I recently learned that aegosexuality is a sub-type of asexuality “describing people who exclusively feel sexually aroused by situations that don’t involve themselves” (cw: … Continue reading

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Question of the Month: December 31st, 2019.

Do you have a New Year’s Resolution? If so, what is it?  Usually I don’t do New Year’s resolutions, but in December I started a new intense fitness routine for my mental health and I’ve been loving it. I’m hoping … Continue reading

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Question of the Month: November 19th, 2019.

How often do you think or talk about being ace?  Is being ace a daily topic and always on your mind? Is it the primary frame of reference for your identity? Or is it one of many ways you understand … Continue reading

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Question of the Month: October 15th, 2019.

How do you feel about Halloween? Do you have any exciting or not so exciting plans? 

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Question of the Month: September 17th, 2019.

How important is aesthetic attraction to you?  I once met another ace person in a chat group who said aesthetic attraction was very important to her. She described how attractive her most recent ex was in detail and I laughed … Continue reading

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Question of the Month: July 16th, 2019.

Did you know you were ace right away or did you go through a questioning period? I’ve heard a lot of people who identify as gray-asexual describe a questioning period or time after they heard the label when they were … Continue reading

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