Category Archives: LGBT

Being Bi/Ace, Part One: Scrutiny About Attraction and the Kinsey Scale

This post is for the May 2018 Carnival of Aces on “Nuance & Complexity,” which I am hosting. Please check it out and consider submitting! Cross-posted to Prismatic Entanglements. I have some frustrations with the way that attraction is discussed … Continue reading

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To build an unimaginable future (or, Queenie is way too jazzed about queer futurity)

This post was written for the April 2018 Carnival of Aces on “All the birds but us…”  In typical Queenie fashion, I’m getting this in at the last possible second, but if you can type at supersonic speeds, consider writing a … Continue reading

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The Homosaurus has an entry for Asexuality!

So I just found the International Thesaurus of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Index Terms last night via Twitter and, as per usual, I went to look up if they had something on asexuality. And they did. Continue reading

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Worse than having no info on asexuality, is having it and then deleting it

Back in 2015, ILGA-Europe included a definition of asexuality in their Glossary. Anyone has seen it lately? Continue reading

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On being unrequited

Content warnings: mention of suicide in a fictional work, discussion of trauma messing with conceptions of the future and relationships, brief mention of abusive relationships (with no specifics), some crappy statements about the insufficiency of aces in relationships On a completely … Continue reading

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Ace Tropes: Cis-ace & Trans-allo Duo

This is part of a series on tropes in fiction with ace characters. To link or follow this series, please use the “ace tropes” tag on this blog. Cisclaimer: this post was written by a cis person. [Note: Co-Co and … Continue reading

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When did you know?

I have a friend who in the last few months has started questioning if they might be queer (although they’re still trying to figure out where exactly they might fall).  They’ve been talking to me about it a fair amount, … Continue reading

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