Author Archives: triplealens

About triplealens

Triple-A-Lens is a thirty-something aromantic, agender, asexual who has been active in the ace community for more than a decade. She’s a writing teacher, with advanced degrees in composition and literature. When not teaching or penning thoughts about her various a-identities, she tap dances and takes care of her neurotic goldfish.

A Spooky Reflection on Amatonormativity

With Halloween approaching, I find myself reflecting not just on the traditional horrors of the season but also that of amatonormativity. As a teenager, my best friend and I loved watching horror movies and, perhaps even more, we loved writing … Continue reading

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Once You Get What You Want…

One reason I have taken an active role in the asexual community is because I want asexuality to “go mainstream.” That is, not only would asexuality have the same visibility as other orientations but also letting people of all orientations … Continue reading

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