Author Archives: Talia

About Talia

Talia is an asexual, nonbinary, vegan-feminist that drinks a lot of coffee and stays up very late playing Blizzard video games and writing fiction. They are working on a PhD in Environmental Studies where they think a lot about oppression as intersectional and impacting identities differentially. Talia has a particular fondness for asexuality, fandom, and Critical Animal Studies. Their personal blog is

Question of the Week: August 1st, 2017.

If you could stick a well-developed canon ace character into any one popular media franchise, which one would you pick? I personally would love to stick an ace character into the Marvel cinematic universe. I remember being so excited that … Continue reading

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Okcupid Questions Asexual People Might Want to Answer, an Ace Dating Resource

Okcupid is my favourite dating site or app because of its questions feature. Okcupid questions let you state your preferences and deal breakers and figure out how a potential date feels about the same questions before you’ve ever even talked … Continue reading

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Question of the Week: July 18th, 2017.

Are there any songs which you feel resonate with you as an ace? I can’t think of any myself so I’m very curious about possible responses to this question. Songs that resonate most with me get me inspired to write, … Continue reading

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Question of the Week: July 4th, 2017.

How much interaction do you have with aces offline these days, and would you want more or less interaction? The closest I’ve gotten to another ace offline in the last few months was a guy I’ve gone on a few … Continue reading

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Question of the Week: June 20th 2017

Have you ever been hit on in public like while at the gym or getting groceries? How does it make you feel? I feel a mixture of confusion and wariness the rare time I get approached or flirted with in … Continue reading

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Question of the Week: May 23rd, 2017.

Do you journal or write your thoughts down? Has it helped you work through being ace or any other parts of your life?  I’ve journalled on and off for years and recently stumbled across Julia Cameron’s Morning Pages activity (write … Continue reading

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Question of the Week: May 9th, 2017.

When someone tells you they’re ace do you assume they’re out/open about it or closeted if they don’t give you any more information? Do you make a point of telling people if being ace is a private part of your … Continue reading

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