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About astarlia

Astarlia is proud of herself for only having volunteered for..... okay if you have to stop and count it's probably too many things isn't it? She is passionate about nerd culture, disability and mental health, alternative relationships, sexuality, and young adult fiction.

Question of the Week: October 16th, 2018.

Do you identify as disabled or neurodiverse and how does this interact with your asexuality?  I was at a queer women’s disability conference recently and to the surprise of no-one asexuality was not discussed very much.  The first time it … Continue reading

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Question of the Week: October 2nd, 2018.

What even is sexual attraction anyway? I mentioned in my last question that I like the definition of Asexuality as not experiencing sexual attraction in the absence of other sexual stimuli and how I like this  because it’s less confusing … Continue reading

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Question of the Week: September 18th, 2018.

How do you describe asexuality to other people? If I’m talking to someone who I suspect is allosexual I go with ‘you know that feeling when you look at someone and go they are hot id like to have sex … Continue reading

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Question of the Week: September 4th, 2018.

What’s your favourite comfort thing when you are sick? I’m that kind of low level sick right now where I’m mostly just too tired and brain foggy to be fully sick, and I almost want to just be fully sick … Continue reading

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Question of the Week: August 21st, 2018.

How do you feel watching kissing or sex on TV? I was watching a TV show the other day when a character walked into a bar and grabbed a girl and kissed her really deeply and I do not relate … Continue reading

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Question of the Week: August 7th, 2018.

Would you/have you talked to the media about asexuality? I would be quite happy to share my own experiences of being asexual, and my understanding of the variety of asexual experiences, but I realise that not everyone would, and I’m … Continue reading

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Question of the Week: July 24th, 2018.

What language would you like to learn and why? If I had to pick one, probably sign language because I like being able to communicate non-verbally, and as well as letting me interact with the Deaf community, it could be useful … Continue reading

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