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About astarlia

Astarlia is proud of herself for only having volunteered for..... okay if you have to stop and count it's probably too many things isn't it? She is passionate about nerd culture, disability and mental health, alternative relationships, sexuality, and young adult fiction.

Question of the Week: December 11th, 2018.

What are some things that have made you feel really sure about being asexual? For me it’s reading books where characters describe sexual attraction.  Their experiences are so weird and foreign to me, and yup, defiantly ace.

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Question of the Week November 27th, 2018.

Do you feel being asexual has impacted your life in a positive or negative way? I saw a link on twitter titled ‘Don’t say I’m lucky to be asexual’ (I couldn’t find it again for this post – please link … Continue reading

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Question of the Week November 13th, 2018.

Is there anything you want to ask other ace folks? I’ll admit this was originally on my list as a way to get more ideas for questions, but I’m also genuinely curious as to what you’d like to know from … Continue reading

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Question of the Week: October 16th, 2018.

Do you identify as disabled or neurodiverse and how does this interact with your asexuality?  I was at a queer women’s disability conference recently and to the surprise of no-one asexuality was not discussed very much.  The first time it … Continue reading

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Question of the Week: October 30th, 2018.

What other communities are you involved in and do you see any asexual representation in them?  I had a friend recently become involved in the furry art scene, and despite the communities reputation for being overtly sexual, they were actually … Continue reading

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Question of the Week: October 2nd, 2018.

What even is sexual attraction anyway? I mentioned in my last question that I like the definition of Asexuality as not experiencing sexual attraction in the absence of other sexual stimuli and how I like this  because it’s less confusing … Continue reading

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Question of the Week: September 18th, 2018.

How do you describe asexuality to other people? If I’m talking to someone who I suspect is allosexual I go with ‘you know that feeling when you look at someone and go they are hot id like to have sex … Continue reading

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