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About astarlia

Astarlia is proud of herself for only having volunteered for..... okay if you have to stop and count it's probably too many things isn't it? She is passionate about nerd culture, disability and mental health, alternative relationships, sexuality, and young adult fiction.

Question of the Week: February 19th, 2019.

What’s the most cliched thing anyone has said to you about your asexuality?   Someone actually asked me if I’d had my hormones checked the other day. They said some insightful things like being curious how someone who identified as … Continue reading

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Question of the Week: February 5th, 2019.

Do you have any good experiences with health care professionals? My therapist is really good, but even she made a fairly disparaging comment when I talked about maybe being ace. Does anyone have any good experiences with therapists or other … Continue reading

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Question of the Week: January 8th, 2019.

What’s one thing you feel like you can do to make the world a better place? Thinking about new years resolutations got me thinking about things that I can do not to make my own life better, but to try … Continue reading

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Question of the Week: December 25th, 2018.

Do you like large family gatherings? I am very lucky in that my family just do a very small christmas with my parents and two siblings.  Even the small breakfast with my parents two friends and my brothers girlfriends felt … Continue reading

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Question of the Week: December 11th, 2018.

What are some things that have made you feel really sure about being asexual? For me it’s reading books where characters describe sexual attraction.  Their experiences are so weird and foreign to me, and yup, defiantly ace.

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Question of the Week November 27th, 2018.

Do you feel being asexual has impacted your life in a positive or negative way? I saw a link on twitter titled ‘Don’t say I’m lucky to be asexual’ (I couldn’t find it again for this post – please link … Continue reading

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Question of the Week November 13th, 2018.

Is there anything you want to ask other ace folks? I’ll admit this was originally on my list as a way to get more ideas for questions, but I’m also genuinely curious as to what you’d like to know from … Continue reading

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