Does being ace affect you knowing which gender(s) you’re into?
Assuming you want to cuddle, kiss, partner up, or do something with anyone at all.
Right now it feels like being ace makes it harder for me to tell what gender(s) I’m into. For me it always starts out as this big wave of “not interested don’t touch me” directed at everyone. Over time the repulsion ebbs and flows and I’ll still be “not interested,” but more okay with particular people. Eventually I may have some sort of vague attraction that could either be platonic or romantic. I don’t know what it is. Sometimes it turns into a romantic relationship. Sometimes it doesn’t. Which one happens feels more influenced by convenience or logistics rather than feelings.