Linkspam: August 12th, 2016

Every Friday, we will share links to news, blogs, and anything else we find interesting.  We can’t catch everything, so you are invited to self-promote in the comments!

Ace Blogging

There is an aphobia masterpost on Liveblogging My Descent Into Madness.

News & Outreach

Everyday Feminism had 5 affirmations for asexuals.

Refinery29 has a short video and article about asexuality.

Calls for Participants/Submissions

electric-lizardlord is creating a list of in-person ace and aro groups.

About Siggy

Siggy is a physics grad student in the U.S. He is gay gray-A, and makes amateur attempts at asexual activism. His interests include godlessness, scientific skepticism, and math. While not working or blogging, he plays video and board games with his boyfriend, and folds colored squares.
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6 Responses to Linkspam: August 12th, 2016

  1. killerbee13 says:

    https://yapbnweca.wordpress.com/2016/08/14/sex-revulsion-a-postmortem/
    I wrote a thing about… well, things. (It’s a good thing I’m a blogger, and not a poet or a marketer.)

  2. Nowhere Girl says:

    “Aphobia” is not a good word. It sounds like an empty word or even like something meaning “lack of fear”. “Acephobia” or the more formal “asexophobia” are much better.
    Sure, “a-phobia” is built directly according to the pattern of “homo-phobia, bi-phobia, trans-phobia”, but it doesn’t carry enough information in its structure by itself. I think a person from outside the asexual community would have a hard time guessing that “a-” stands for “asexual”, perhaps even if they saw that the text is about anti-asexual prejudice.

    • LOL, I thought the same thing when I saw that. I typically use “acephobia” for that reason.

    • Sphinx says:

      Actually, aphobia was coined (on tumblr?) to cover both asexual AND aromantic people. There is a huge ongoing trend of people on tumblr lumping both groups together for purposes of exclusion from LGBT+ communities and hate (often expressed by people making blanket statements about “aces/aros” especially “cishet aces/aros”). Many people involved in the “discussion” that gave rise to that linkspam either see both groups as indistinguishable from each other, or while their real target is asexual people they will still include aros in their posts.

      In fact, scrolling through the linkspam shows plenty of titles were people use “aces/aros” as a singular group they are discussing, which is why aphobia arose as a term to discuss when someone is both acephobic and arophobic at the same time.

      • Siggy says:

        “aphobe” has been around for a long time, although it hasn’t necessarily been in common use the whole time. The earliest AVEN mention I found was in 2003, and I there’s a thread from 2005 which also brings up the “lack of fear” thing.

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