If you want a partner, would you prefer that they be asexual?
My longest relationships have been with people who don’t identify as asexual. As a sex-favourable asexual my personal experiences with asexuality don’t really reflect how many other aces experience asexuality or come to an asexual identity. Other than sharing a label I don’t think we’d have much in common. That being said, sharing a label can be an important bonding experience. For a short period of time I dated someone on the ace spectrum and discussing asexuality brought us closer together. On the other hand, asexuality also may have been one of the reasons we broke up. Bonding over asexuality may be more significant in friendships than relationships for me.