Have you ever used an ace advice blog on Tumblr? What was your experience? If not, what’s your opinion of them?
On my personal tumblr most of the blogs I follow are ace, nonbinary, or aro advice blogs. I love scrolling through my dash and seeing so many thoughtful, optimistic, and positive responses to people thinking about their identities and I regularly reblog poignant or interesting asks and responses.
I wish I’d known about advice blogs when I first realized I was asexual. I spent some time on AVEN forums where people asked similar questions, but regularly received problematic, unhelpful, and stigmatizing answers. I didn’t feel I belonged because of the answers. Certainly the same thing can happen on ace advice blogs (about a year ago there was a lot of discussion about ace advice blogs and how they were giving advice, which Queenie made a great linkspam on), but luckily I don’t have much personal experience coming across those blogs.