What have other people said or done that makes you feel comfortable as an ace person? If you don’t have any examples from personal experience, what would you want to hear?
The queer group at a university I went to proposed a “no sex night” event for ace people. I was really excited that they made an event to show they had ace people in mind and even more excited when everyone at the ace hangout agreed that the no sex night shouldn’t be described as just for ace people. Some ace people wouldn’t want to go and some people who weren’t ace would. I felt comfortable in a space where asexuality mattered and everyone seemed to understand that asexuality shouldn’t always be synonymous with no sex and allosexuality with sex.