In the past week, there’s been a lot of discussion about how people can fail to fit in neat boxes (particularly in the context of a certain survey which tries to do just that). Is there anything about yourself that makes you difficult to categorize?
I’m a gray-A, but I wouldn’t say that this means I experience sexual attraction infrequently. Nor would I say it means I experience it frequently. In fact, the entire idea of frequency doesn’t make a whole lot of sense to me, because sexual attraction doesn’t feel like a thing that occurs, more like a thing that is.