A couple of extended discussions with people at my meetup some months ago have really wedged this question in the back of my head, because people often have such different perspectives.
Before you discovered the asexual community, did you think that everyone was really just like you were and that sexuality was overblown, or did you know you were different and think you were alone with it?
This is always an interesting question for me because I have no real answer for it. I discovered the asexuality community much too early to have really thought much about this, honestly; I think I found it right as I was beginning to notice I was a little different. I think that maybe I would have noticed that most people weren’t like me, given a chance, but it’s hard to be sure.