Do you seek inclusion in specifically LGBTQ spaces? Are you comfortable in them?
For me it depends heavily on the space. I’m more likely to be comfortable in spaces that are explicitly asexual-friendly or, failing that, which are explicitly bi- and trans-friendly and do a good job focusing on those issues. I am generally not comfortable in “gay-centric” spaces.
I don’t currently seek out inclusion in either kind of space, although I have hung out in campus LGBTQA groups in the past. I tend to be highly anxious about scoping out new spaces and it’s generally not worth the anxiety right now. It’s possible that things will change in the future, though.