If you’re in a relationship, how did that happen? Did you explicitly start dating or looking for a partner, or did you fall into a relationship unexpectedly?
My partners and I fell into things, without really expecting anything to happen. I’ve never consciously gone out looking for anyone, and I’ve had some conversations with friends of mine at meetup about how aces seem to be really awkward around the beginnings of relationships. This was definitely true for all of us!