Monthly Archives: December 2013

Question of the Week: December 31st, 2014

I’ve been visiting my family for the holidays, and I recently let them know about one of my partners after some years of quietly avoiding talking about my social life with them. A few days ago, my sister asked me … Continue reading

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Linkspam: December 27th, 2013

Every Friday, we will share links to news, blogs, and anything else we find interesting.  We can’t catch everything, so you are invited to self-promote in the comments! YouTube channel GirlfriendsTV had a few short informational videos on asexuality. What happens when you (literally) wear … Continue reading

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Question of the Week: December 24th, 2013

Today is Christmas Eve. Do you celebrate Christmas? If you do, how do you celebrate? If you don’t, do you do anything in particular instead?

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Growing into “queer”

This post was written for the December 2013 Carnival of Aces.  This month’s theme is “change.”  You too can submit! Disclaimer: This is about my personal experiences, and should not in any way be taken as indicative of the experiences or opinions … Continue reading

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A journey through aesthetic attraction

Let me tell a personal story without any particular point to it. Many people, when they first discover they are ace, have a lot of anxiety over perceived difference between themselves and the rest of the ace community.  Does this … Continue reading

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Linkspam: December 20th, 2013

Every Friday, we will share links to news, blogs, and anything else we find interesting.  We can’t catch everything, so you are invited to self-promote in the comments! A study is looking for asexual people of color. The Youth Project is running … Continue reading

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Just Existing Is Not Enough

This morning I read a well-meant blanket condemnation against people entering relationships with other people to whom they’re not romantically or sexually attracted. The author had probably heard of asexuality and would acknowledge its existence if asked, but had not … Continue reading

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